|
|
Cutting Edge Self Help Technology
By Mike Brescia
Over the last four or five years, with the number of
people getting computers and getting on the Internet
increasing massively, the volume of questions has increased
in our client support services inbox. More and more, it
has been getting deluged with comments of frustration and
requests concerning our opinions of all the various self-
help products and services out there.
The reason for this is that over the last 10 years, self-
help websites have proliferated and they all promise
impossible changes and benefits to your emotional and
physical and financial and social well-being.
The claims on these hundreds of websites are just so
incredible and promise automatic, effortless change that,
when people finally get their product and see that just
like most everything else they've bought in the past, they
feel cheated.
Because all they have is another book, CD or DVD that
provides little more than a lecture, or a giant set of
manuals that there's no way in the world they are going to
follow through on, because it's all beyond their comfort
level (both the work involved and the promise of a
different reality). It's beyond their ability to believe
they can achieve or believe they deserve to achieve.
Because it's just information.
I understand this all too clearly, because for about six
years in my late teens and twenties, I tried very hard to
be successful in life. I tried to dream big. I tried to
achieve some modest yet challenging goals. And I couldn't.
I read books. I listened to tapes. I watched videos. I
took mountains of vitamin supplements. I took classes.
Positive thinking. Motivation. Psychology. Technique
based (college). I literally read constantly and listened
to tapes constantly while I worked, while I drove from
place to place, and even while I slept. Didn't work. I
ended up living in a van.
What I learned was that, yes, it does help to know what to
do...
But you also need to change on the inside in order to make
major outer changes in your life.
You cannot get one without the other.
You better face that truth now, if you've don't believe it.
The promise of a "dream life" without inner change is so
attractive to most people that they jump at it, and when
the book/tape/seminar can't do what they've been promised,
they say "it doesn't work."
But it's them that didn't work.
And it's really not their fault, frankly.
Because expecting people to easily do things they've never
done, is like asking a cat to bark like a dog.
I mean, if I was selling a training class that promised to
help you teach your cat to bark like a dog, you would fail.
Because cats can't bark like a dog and they never will.
And just getting information about how to achieve some big
dream you have is also doomed to fail if you do not have
the same core moment-by-moment mental patterns (thoughts,
beliefs, attitudes, emotions) as the people who already
easily and naturally do what you want to do.
And "being positive" isn't what I mean.
Because I know some incredibly happy, optimistic, positive
people.
But a few of these people are so out of shape physically,
that it a wonder they are still alive.
They own the belief and thought patterns of happiness and
optimism, but they don't have the same belief and thought
patterns needed for good health.
Those ARE different mental patterns altogether.
Just like belief systems for very organized people are
different than those of non-schmokers.
Yes, they are both desirable habits to have but they have
nothing to do with each other... because there are
organized schomkers and there are disorganized schmokers...
Just as there are ORGANIZED healthy people and
DISORGANIZED healthy people.
Are you getting this?
Being "positive" or "nice" or "enthusiastic" guarantees
nothing.
Sure, everyone should be positive and nice and
enthusiastic about life. But it does not assure you that
you'll get anything you want.
Zip.
And thinking that a book will ever be your ticket to a
radically different life, especially if your life-long
habits are the polar opposite to what is taught in the
book, is uh, well, that is preposterous.
Changing your brainwave patterns has value, and I heartily
recommend using tools that can help that happen.
Changing your body's energy flow has tremendous value to
your health, and I recommend therapies that make that happen.
Supplements and medicines that help improve health are a
Godsend for so many people.
Yet none of those things can help you to feel differently
emotionally than the way you have been programmed to feel
you whole life.
None of those things will help you take goal achieving
actions that can and will transport you to a different life.
That is the domain of thought and behavior modification.
Information can't change patterned thoughts and behaviors.
Becasue information is usually just in one ear and out the
other.
Information and knowledge is ONLY power when in the
possession of a person who has the ability to use it.
If you want that power, if you want to feel differently,
if you want to be able to act differently, if you want to
be able to make better decisions, then you must make the
choice to start using our Think Right Now
and Instant Inner Power programs.
If you aren't, you are missing out on some of the most
powerful, simplest and quickest changes you could possibly
imagine.
They do things information cannot.
They quickly help you change the way you feel so that you
can make different decisions and take different actions.
If you want to truly change your capabilities...
If you want to change how you feel daily...
- http://www.thinkrightnow.com
It's not information. It's mental programming.
Cutting edge stuff.
Love,
Mike
|